This woman has a tidy situation with Cupid safe in a little cage, if we all had a little caged cupid–relationships might be better.  But it could be a situation has to be addressed where you need to allow a relationship to just be, rather than forcing it into a form.  Enjoy the ride, and decide if the relationship is fitting for you.  There are plenty of fish in the sea, maybe one day there will be plenty of caged cupids on the beaches.  Until then, enjoy the ride with your relationship or see about moving in another direction.  Remember, the point is to make your life the greatest with the best potential of joy.